Internet
kot novi kraj komunikacije
Vedno večji
vpliv v današnjem času dobiva internet. Zato ga lahko gledamo kot
novo področje socializacije, precej drugačno od človeškega
naravnega okolja. Z naravnim okoljem označujem direktni pogovori, ki
so neposredni. Glede te komunikacije se bom osredotočal na najstnike
od 14-18 leta, ki uporabljajo internet za komunikacijo. V tej
komunikaciji je po najnovejši statistiki, kjer so kontrolirali
forume in določili, da je vključeno ogromno spolnosti in nasilja,
vsak 3 stavek naj bi vseboval takšno sporočilo. Ta tematika
spolnosti in nasilja je drugače v živo dosti manj uporabljena in
dosti bolj previdno uporabljena v pogovorih, ker je ljudi sram in se
nelagodno počutijo, ko se takšna tema odpre.
Zato lahko
izpostavimo, da so glavne lastnosti internetnih komunikacij
anonimnost in momentanost. Te dve lastnosti lahko na veliko
spreminjata vso tematiko in obnašanje ljudi, ki uporabljajo
internet. Ljudje ni več sram govoriti o spolnosti, poniževati
ljudi, izražati rasizem. Zato uporabniki, ki se večino pogovarjajo
preko interneta, mogoče ne bodo prepoznali meje v pravem življenju
in bodo sporne in neprijetne teme odpirali brez občutka ali je
primerno ali ne. Tudi glede pogovora je osebam, ki se več
pogovarjajo preko interneta in manj neposredno, težje prepoznati
mimike in druge znake med pogovorom in s tem pogovor v živo izgubi
večino vrednosti in ljudje se ne znajo odzivati pravilno.
V drugem pogledu
pa momentanost ali instantnost vpliva na potrpežljivost posameznika.
Vsa sporočila so poslana in sprejeta v trenutku in je s tem
komunikacija na daljavo še lažja. Vendar se človek s tem odvadi
potrpeti na nekaj in sprejeti da ni vse instantno.
Moram tudi
omeniti, da obe te lastnosti nista samo negativni, zaradi anonimnosti
lahko npr. Introvertirani ljudje poiščejo odgovore na vprašanja,
ki jih v živo ne upajo vprašati. Pri instantnosti je pa logično,
da zmanjša oviro komunikacije na daljavo in pospeši pogovore in
izmenjavo informacij.
Vsekakor lahko
zaključimo, da je internet nove področje komunikacije mladih in ga
je treba upoštevati kot takega. Ne moremo in ne smemo mladim
preprečiti uporabo, tako da je dolžnost staršev, da naučijo mlade
uporabljati ta medij in z njim pravilno ravnati. Doma lahko vsak zase
pogleda koliko se pogovarja preko digitalnih medijev in nato med
pogovorom v živo preveri koliko razume negovorjenega sporočila med
pogovorom samim, npr. mimika, ton glasu, čustvena obarvanost,
hitrost govora, premori, poudarjanje, gibi telesa, .....
- Denis Ališič
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Internet
as the new place for communication
The
Internet is gaining an ever increasing influence in today`s life.
Therefore, we can see it as a new area of socialization, quite
different from the human natural environment. With a natural
environment I mark a direct conversation in real life. Regarding this
communication, I will focus on teenagers aged 14-18 who use the
Internet for communication. In this communication, according to the
latest statistics, where the forums were controlled and determined
that a lot of sexuality and violence were involved, each 3 sentence
should contain such a message. This topic of sexuality and violence
is otherwise much less used and much more cautiously used in
conversations, because people are ashamed and uncomfortable when such
an issue opens.
Therefore,
we can emphasize that the main features of Internet communications
are anonymity and momentum. These two properties can greatly change
the whole subject and behavior of people using the Internet. People
are no longer ashamed to talk about sex, humiliation, express racism.
Therefore, users who talk mostly on the Internet may not recognize
the boundaries of real life converstation topics, and they will open
contentious and unpleasant topics without feeling, whether it is
appropriate or not. Also, in conversation, people who talk more over
the Internet and less directly, find it harder to recognize mimics
and other characters during a conversation, and with this
conversation loses most of the value and people can not respond
properly.
In a
different perspective, momentum or instant messaging affect the
patient's patience. All messages are sent and received
instantaneously, thus making distance communication even easier.
However, it is unnatural for this man to endure something and accept
that everything is not instantaneous.
I must
also mention that both of these characteristics are not only
negative, but because of anonymity, for example, Introverted people
find answers to questions they do not dare to ask. In instant
messaging, however, it is logical to reduce the barrier of distance
communication and to speed up conversations and exchange of
information.
In any
case, we can conclude that the Internet is a new area of
communication for young people and should be considered as such. We
can not and should not prevent young people from using it, so it is
the duty of parents to teach young people to use this medium and
handle it properly. They can look at each other at home to
communicate about how much they talk through digital media, and then,
during a live conversation, to check how much they understand the
non-spoken message during the conversation themselves, mimic, tone of
voice, emotional coloring, speech speed, pauses, emphasis, body
movements, .....
- Denis Ališič
